Epilogue (Which Should Have Been the Prologue)
I haven’t explained why I chose Everest Base Camp (EBC) or why I decided on the Three Passes trek.
I hadn’t really thought about Nepal until last December, just before Christmas, when a friend asked if I wanted to join them for EBC and Gokyo Lakes. I half-heartedly agreed to look into it.
Three years ago, I was invited to trek Peru’s Cordillera Huayhuash-a 10-day, 9-night camping trip through the Andes and alpine lakes. That trek required walking and sleeping at elevations between 4,000 and 5,000 meters. Due to a flight delay, catching a bad cold early on, and not taking Diamox consistently, I struggled. Although I persevered, walking every step and crossing two 5,000-meter passes, but it was very tough. Afterwards, I concluded that maybe 5,000 meters was my limit, and with so many beautiful places to hike at lower altitudes, perhaps I should stick to those. For two years, I did. Even last fall, when I heard two friends were planning a trip to Nepal for this spring, I wasn’t interested.
But after that December invitation, I contacted several travel agencies in Nepal. The more I talked, the more interested I became. Inspired by another friend, I learned about the Three Passes route. She was planning to travel solo with a guide and porter in March. I discovered that the traditional EBC trek is an out-and-back route to Base Camp, which doesn’t even offer the best views of Everest. In contrast, the Three Passes or EBC + Gokyo Lakes routes form a loop, crossing two or three passes over 5,000 meters, and offer better scenery-which quickly became my goal. I also realized that solo travel would allow me to customize my plan and be more flexible, thus increasing my chances of success. Before I knew it, the idea became real.
In February, I finalized my trekking company-High Paths Treks and Expeditions-paid the deposit, and bought my plane tickets. While researching, I read somewhere, “If you can dream it, you can do it.” I dreamed of this, but could I actually do it? Before I left, I had serious self-doubt and suffered from imposter syndrome. I questioned my strength and fitness-who was I to think I could do this? I was so unsure that I told very few people about my plans, and I certainly didn’t mention attempting the more difficult Three Passes trek. But I also knew there was only one way to find out: by being there and fighting each day.
What’s more, although I enjoy solo travel, just weeks before leaving, I worried about being scammed. I’d have to pay the balance before receiving any services-what if the guide didn’t show up? These are things you don’t worry about with a group.
To make anything happen, you have to get to the starting line. Somehow, I got myself to Nepal and to the start. From there, it was about taking one day at a time, facing each task as it came. On this trip, we crossed three passes, climbed three hills, visited Everest Base Camp, and slept at an altitude as high as 5,160 meters, stepping on eight places above 5,000 meters in total. It wasn’t easy, especially when I caught a cold, couldn’t sleep well, and didn’t like the food. The harsh elements-the cold, lack of showers, no running water or flushing toilets-were tough, and I didn’t enjoy those parts of the experience, but you can’t pick and choose. Where else can you see such jagged mountains, each more beautiful and impressive than the last?
Thanks to my family for giving me the freedom and trust to pursue these adventures. They never questioned my desire and allow me to be myself. Because of their support, I can move forward and turn my dreams into reality.
Thank you, too, friends, for your company and encouragement on this journey. I didn’t expect anyone to be interested in reading my daily accounts, but to my surprise, several people told me they actually read them. This is the first time I’ve journaled and documented my experiences during a trip. I wrote in English so my kids can know where I’ve been and what I’ve seen and experienced-and it turns out to be faster and more freeing for me, too. It’s been a fun 15-day journey, and it’s been a joy sharing it with you!
List of 5,000m+ Locations Visited During the Trek:
1. Nagarjun Hill near Dingboche (5,100m) – Day 6
2. Kongma-La Pass (5,545m) – Day 8
3. Everest Base Camp (5,364m) – Day 9
4. Kala Patthar (5,650m) – Day 9
5. Cho-La Pass (5,420m) – Day 11
6. Gokyo Ri (5,360m) – Day 12
7. Renjo-La Pass (5,345m) – Day 13
8. GorakShep (5,160m) – Night 9
(Note: This is a high-altitude settlement, not a pass or hill, but included here for reference.)
Totaling 159.3km
Lessons and Tips
• Go slow, especially during the first few days of ascent. There’s no reward for rushing. Take breaks-even standing breaks help. Sip water regularly and have small amounts of energy bars or gels.
• Hydrate well after arriving at your lodging. Buy 1–2 liters of hot water or tea and keep drinking. Staying hydrated helps you recover faster and reduces the risk of altitude sickness. You can also pour hot water into a Nalgene bottle and tuck it into your sleeping bag as a heat source.
• Food becomes less satisfying at higher altitudes. Bring your own healthy snacks for longer days, such as energy bars, trail mix, chocolate, nuts, dried fruit, salt sticks, or electrolyte packets. Protein powder is also helpful-it can be added to hot water or tea.
• Essential medications to bring: Diamox, ibuprofen, Benadryl, anti-diarrheal medicine, cold/flu medicine, and cough drops.
• Lip balm with sun protection is a must. A buff is also very useful for avoiding dust and sunburn.
• Layer your clothing, and don’t overdress. You’ll warm up quickly once you start walking.
• For better views and more challenge, choose the EBC + Gokyo Lakes or Three Passes trek over the standard EBC route. Counter-clockwise is generally easier.
• Avoid showers past Namche (3,400m). Use dry shampoo, wet wipes, or sponge baths instead.
Most importantly, have fun and enjoy the journey!